Neil L. Tomczak

Neil L. Tomczak, 73, peacefully passed away at home in La Crescent, MN, on November 1, 2025. Neil will be deeply missed by family, friends, and all who were fortunate to know him. Born December 19, 1951 Racine, WI, to Edward and June Tomczak. A graduate of the Class of 1970 Washington Park High School, Racine, WI.

In 1976, Neil married the love of his life, Mary Fliess. Following in the footsteps of his father entering a 25 year career in the funeral service as a Funeral Director. Eventually becoming the second-generation owner of the Wilson Funeral home of which he purchased from his father, Edward Tomczak. Through years of dedicated, compassionate, and empathetic funeral service in 2009 Neil was able to sell the business and enter into an early retirement. 

With early retirement, Neil and Mary had the liberty to spend more time with family, escape Midwestern winters for the warmth of the south, and travel. A few more motorcycle rides and of course a couple more boat rides. Those who knew and cherished Neil also knew he owned just a few…boats in his time with us! Retirement also transitioned Neil and Mary into Snowbirds, spending winters in the likes of Florida, North Carolina, and Texas. Enjoying the company of family, friends both new and old in the warm weather down south. Neil always said he put in his winter time and was over it. Neil was most proud of his family always sharing that pride with friends or whomever was listening. He was always ready for a good time and had a knack for getting people together. Usually followed by a few laughs…”Just ask a Pollak how they pull up their socks?!” Those that knew Neil well will never forget the iconic “MARY!!!” echoed out from his voice.

Neil is survived by his wife Mary, sons and daughters-in-law Bryan & Tarah, Kevin & Krystal. Grandchildren Tanner, Alyson, Brooklynn, Lucy, and Emmitt. Brother Mark(Judy), sister Lynn Margelofsky, mother-in-law Laydene Fliess, sisters and brothers-in-law Judy Petersen, Carol Squires, Jerry(Cheryl) Fliess, Rose(Ray) Olszewski, Connie(Joel) Minton, nieces, nephews, and many friends.

Proceeded in death by an infant daughter and son, Eric. Parents Edward & June, father-in-law Norbert Fliess, brother-in-law Dick Petersen, nephews Charlie Squires and Joel Minton Jr.

The Tomczak family would like to extend their utmost gratitude and thanks to Dr. Ma and the team at UW Health, Drs. Lindsay Morris, Gil Harmon at Gundersen. Also the Gundersen Hospice team for their care and compassion for Neil, especially his nurse, Suzy.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be honored in Neil’s name to UW Health Carbone Center and Gundersen Oncology.

A gathering and celebration honoring the life of Neil will take place on Sunday, November 9, 2025, from Noon to 2 pm. 

Schumacher-Kish Funeral and Cremation Services

111 South Oak Street La Crescent, MN 55947 

608-782-1252